The Life Doctor: THE FEELING OF BEING NEEDED

The Life Doctor: THE FEELING OF BEING NEEDED: Our whole stability revolves around who we are as a person and what our value is, that is what keeps us going in a relatively stable way. L...

The Life Doctor: SHARING - THAT FEELING

The Life Doctor: SHARING - THAT FEELING: One of the greatest feelings you can ever have is that of sharing, sharing moments with strangers via a common understanding of whatever ...

The Life Doctor: MOVING ON

The Life Doctor: MOVING ON: Our lives comprise of a series of defined areas where we ourselves strive or aim to get to, many of them we succeed, and some are areas whe...

The Life Doctor: GRIEF

The Life Doctor: GRIEF: Grief can be so debilitating that it takes a hold of life and steers you into a corner and holds you there to the extent that at times one ...

The Life Doctor: PASSING PHASES

The Life Doctor: PASSING PHASES: For everyone life is full of ups and downs, we don't need to be reminded of that, at times life goes swimmingly well and then it changes to...

The Life Doctor: HELP WHERE IT IS NEEDED

The Life Doctor: HELP WHERE IT IS NEEDED: There's nothing wrong with real honest help when needed, it goes a long way to assisting us in our quest and journey in life. Whether it's ...

The Life Doctor: THE TIME LINES

The Life Doctor: THE TIME LINES: Most people regardless of aspirations or desires for their future want to increase their worth as to having things that they would like to ...

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S WRONG WITH LIFE

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S WRONG WITH LIFE: Most people seem to have a gripe at something or another, it's not that they are predominantly moaners and groaners it's just that there is...

The Life Doctor: THE WEREWOLF EXPERIENCE

The Life Doctor: THE WEREWOLF EXPERIENCE: Doesn't it appear today that nothing is exactly what it seems, that adverts selling things tell you how cheap they are then the small print...

The Life Doctor: TOUCHING A NERVE

The Life Doctor: TOUCHING A NERVE: Even the most hardy types have somewhere deep within themselves a "touchy spot" where they don't like to venture too far or discuss whateve...

The Life Doctor: HATE AND PERFECTION

The Life Doctor: HATE AND PERFECTION: More than ever today the young are put under pressure to conform, all the hollow talk of allowing them to being individuals is rubbish as ...

The Life Doctor: TOUCHING A NERVE

The Life Doctor: TOUCHING A NERVE: Even the most hardy types have somewhere deep within themselves a "touchy spot" where they don't like to venture too far or discuss whateve...

The Life Doctor: BEING AUDACIOUS

The Life Doctor: BEING AUDACIOUS: What separates those that are reasonable from those that are not reasonable, those that have vision against those that just think and do ...

The Life Doctor: THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT

The Life Doctor: THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT: If you ever give it any thought how do you view your future, is it going to be good because you believe that because you are going to make ...

The Life Doctor: SHARING - THAT FEELING

The Life Doctor: SHARING - THAT FEELING: One of the greatest feelings you can ever have is that of sharing, sharing moments with strangers via a common understanding of whatever ...

The Life Doctor: SEEING THE LIGHT

The Life Doctor: SEEING THE LIGHT: It matters not who you are or what you do there is always something in life that you are subservient to even if you wouldn't wish to admit ...

The Life Doctor: LEAVING OLD WAYS BEHIND

The Life Doctor: LEAVING OLD WAYS BEHIND: Does the past ever come back to haunt you or do you frequently recall events or incidents of the past, or indeed have you got a story of th...

The Life Doctor: SEEING THE LIGHT

The Life Doctor: SEEING THE LIGHT: It matters not who you are or what you do there is always something in life that you are subservient to even if you wouldn't wish to admit ...

The Life Doctor: KINDNESS

The Life Doctor: KINDNESS: We all like to think that we are kind at least to some extent and quickly judge others who we see as "not so kind" but not necessarily mean...

The Life Doctor: PURSUING HAPPINESS or CREATING HAPPINESS

The Life Doctor: PURSUING HAPPINESS or CREATING HAPPINESS: Which category do you fall into - a pursuer or a creator of happiness, or haven't you thought about it. Or are you a dabbler in all of them...

The Life Doctor: LIFE PROGRESS - YOUR VERSION

The Life Doctor: LIFE PROGRESS - YOUR VERSION: Everyone has their version of life and the lives of others, although in the grand order of things the lives of others isn't important outsi...

The Life Doctor: VICTORY IN SIGHT

The Life Doctor: VICTORY IN SIGHT: From the moment we are born to the day we die we have something in mind, it doesn't matter what it is but we have something that we would e...

The Life Doctor: VICTORY IN SIGHT

The Life Doctor: VICTORY IN SIGHT: From the moment we are born to the day we die we have something in mind, it doesn't matter what it is but we have something that we would e...

The Life Doctor: MY LIFE - LET ME LIVE IT

The Life Doctor: MY LIFE - LET ME LIVE IT: We all like to think we are free, then when it suites us we make up stories about why we can't or restrictions or circumstances, but that's...

The Life Doctor: HELP ME - PLEASE....

The Life Doctor: HELP ME - PLEASE....: It's of no surprise that right now somewhere someone is desperate for help of some kind, it doesn't matter what it is, desperation is the s...

The Life Doctor: GETTING UPSET - AGAIN

The Life Doctor: GETTING UPSET - AGAIN: It almost seems that "getting upset" is the current vogue, and it's being taken to the extreme that people are pre-empting that others will ...

The Life Doctor: THE LIGHT AND DARK CONTINUEM

The Life Doctor: THE LIGHT AND DARK CONTINUEM: Just about everyone knows the difference between good and bad it's instinctive and intuitive, the few that don't are relatively hopeless cas...

The Life Doctor: YOU DON'T NEED PERMISSION (RP)

The Life Doctor: YOU DON'T NEED PERMISSION (RP): It's funny how when we grow up we are taught, or at least most of us to be respectful to others and others property, it's something that we ...

The Life Doctor: OVERCOMING ANYTHING

The Life Doctor: OVERCOMING ANYTHING: Whatever you think or whatever you apportion to your circumstances or upbringing or race or religion it all boils down to you, you are the ...

The Life Doctor: PLAYING GOD

The Life Doctor: PLAYING GOD: The irony and strangeness of religious people is often so baffling one wonders if in fact they are by default devil worshippers in disguise...

The Life Doctor: OVERCOMING ANYTHING

The Life Doctor: OVERCOMING ANYTHING: Whatever you think or whatever you apportion to your circumstances or upbringing or race or religion it all boils down to you, you are the ...

The Life Doctor: BEING ADULT ABOUT LIFE

The Life Doctor: BEING ADULT ABOUT LIFE: So many arguments are caused by juvenile thoughts and pure selfish feelings. The majority of relationship breakdowns are because of selfish...

The Life Doctor: THE MULTIPLICITY EFFECT

The Life Doctor: THE MULTIPLICITY EFFECT: Decisions, decisions, decisions, should I do this or that, should I go here or there, should I stay in or go out, oh the choices of a singl...

The Life Doctor: ICHOR CODES AND HASMAL ENERGY

The Life Doctor: ICHOR CODES AND HASMAL ENERGY: The fragmentation of our society is fastening at a pace of knots not experienced and not seen before. It's ahead of the so called "wise" pe...

The Life Doctor: ARE YOU PART OF THE PROBLEM

The Life Doctor: ARE YOU PART OF THE PROBLEM: Endlessly chewing over the past, ruminating over the present and regurgitating the failures, staring at the closed doors, reminiscing at a...

The Life Doctor: THE SILENT NOISE AROUND US

The Life Doctor: THE SILENT NOISE AROUND US: All around us there is noise, not necessarily the noise we can hear, but noise there is, it's reverberating and vibrating to an effect and ...

The Life Doctor: EASTER - NEPHRESH, PSYCHEKOI & SHEKINAH

The Life Doctor: EASTER - NEPHRESH, PSYCHEKOI & SHEKINAH: Easter, whatever it means to you, if anything at all these days, doesn't alter the fact that it still exists, and if you are one of the new...

The Life Doctor: COMFORT ZONE TANTRUMS

The Life Doctor: COMFORT ZONE TANTRUMS: Evolution over time evokes many memories for us, and the older we get the more incidents we can recall of having had to do something, get ov...

The Life Doctor: SUBLIMINAL CONFUSION

The Life Doctor: SUBLIMINAL CONFUSION: Enjoying life for many seems an illusive trail, there permanently appears to be a disengagement with that on-going feeling of enjoyment wher...

The Life Doctor: THE DARK PLACES - QUANTUM THOUGHT (RP)

The Life Doctor: THE DARK PLACES - QUANTUM THOUGHT (RP): There's a greatness in collective thought, but at the same time it all depends upon what the thought is, lemmings commit suicide collectivel...

The Life Doctor: SUBLIMINAL CONFUSION

The Life Doctor: SUBLIMINAL CONFUSION: Enjoying life for many seems an illusive trail, there permanently appears to be a disengagement with that on-going feeling of enjoyment wher...

The Life Doctor: LIFE'S EDUCATED PARROTS (RP)

The Life Doctor: LIFE'S EDUCATED PARROTS (RP): Education and knowledge are one thing, putting it all together in a coherent way is another. We can obtain knowledge in the form of a book ...

The Life Doctor: WHEN LIFE STARTS TO HURT (RP)

The Life Doctor: WHEN LIFE STARTS TO HURT (RP): At times in life many arrive at what is virtually a Life Impasse in that all of a sudden everything appears to come to a grinding halt, the ...

The Life Doctor: WHY CAN'T I BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME? (RP)

The Life Doctor: WHY CAN'T I BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME? (RP): Happiness is almost on a par with one of today's biggest problematical areas of life, Mental Health, getting to grips with oneself and lif...

The Life Doctor: THE "AURA SPIN" EFFECT

The Life Doctor: THE "AURA SPIN" EFFECT: Lemmings have been around for ages, and it's becoming increasingly more "lemming like" today with the populous following rather than standin...

The Life Doctor: PUNCHING HOLES IN THE MATRIX

The Life Doctor: PUNCHING HOLES IN THE MATRIX: Just about everywhere we go today their are sets of rules and regulations, there are conditions and parameters, there are "unspoken" ethics ...

The Life Doctor: HOW TO BE BEAUTIFUL

The Life Doctor: HOW TO BE BEAUTIFUL: What are you expecting to hear in reading this? What have you already got pre-set and conjured up in your mind as to what "being beautiful" ...

The Life Doctor: PAMERING TO OTHERS EMOTIONS

The Life Doctor: PAMERING TO OTHERS EMOTIONS: How strong are you as a person to do and say what you will without fear of upsetting others? This excludes the rude and crass who deliberate...

The Life Doctor: HYPERDYMENTIONAL & MAGNETOHYDRODYNAMIC FORCES

The Life Doctor: HYPERDYMENTIONAL & MAGNETOHYDRODYNAMIC FORCES: We tend to think in very narrow terms dimensionally which is understandable as we live in a relatively primitive environment even though we...

The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE

The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE: There's a big difference between being alone and feeling lonely, the former is just that - you are alone, with few or no one around you, th...

The Life Doctor: BINARY SLAVES

The Life Doctor: BINARY SLAVES: In binary code another world exists, it's a world of control and effect, it's a world without heart and soul, it's a world that thrives on y...

The Life Doctor: INTELLECTUAL DEBAUCHERY

The Life Doctor: INTELLECTUAL DEBAUCHERY: It's at times good to air ones views, it gets off your chest once and for all stuff that has come to mind that has a significance with how y...

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL VOLATILITY

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL VOLATILITY: Social volatility has become almost of epidemic proportions, the Middle East is a prime example where anything goes in the quest for shiftin...

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUALITY V SCIENCE

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUALITY V SCIENCE: It's 2012 the real Year of Aquarius, not the coming of Aquarius as sung years ago in the "sunshine days" of hippy environments and the like....

The Life Doctor: INTELLECTUAL DEBAUCHERY

The Life Doctor: INTELLECTUAL DEBAUCHERY: It's at times good to air ones views, it gets off your chest once and for all stuff that has come to mind that has a significance with how y...

The Life Doctor: MANAGING EGO

The Life Doctor: MANAGING EGO: We all have dreams and aspirations and even at times wild dreams that take us to places just bordering on fantasy, none of it does us any ha...

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL VOLATILITY

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL VOLATILITY: Social volatility has become almost of epidemic proportions, the Middle East is a prime example where anything goes in the quest for shiftin...

The Life Doctor: LONELINESS, SOBRIETY AND INNER PEACE

The Life Doctor: LONELINESS, SOBRIETY AND INNER PEACE: There is almost in epidemic proportions today a degree of loneliness which is sweeping through the lives of many people and it's causing th...

The Life Doctor: WHO OR WHAT'S THE PROBLEM

The Life Doctor: WHO OR WHAT'S THE PROBLEM: So you're getting upset that something isn't going well, you get let down, the news on television is always bad,  the government seem to be...

The Life Doctor: CONCIOUSNESS, PANPROTOPSYCHISM AND YOU

The Life Doctor: CONCIOUSNESS, PANPROTOPSYCHISM AND YOU: We all know about consciousness and we know about unconsciousness, it's not something we need a degree in to understand, we may be a bit fuz...

The Life Doctor: FALSE LIMITATIONS

The Life Doctor: FALSE LIMITATIONS: Our journey in life is full of ups and downs and on the whole we cope with them all, some only just and some test our mettle to an extent in...

The Life Doctor: 3D, 4D, 5D LIFE EVOLUTION

The Life Doctor: 3D, 4D, 5D LIFE EVOLUTION: Currently we live in a 3D society that is encapsulated in time, we rarely think in a time continuum latitude as we are finite souls that ha...

The Life Doctor: THE WILL TO LET GO

The Life Doctor: THE WILL TO LET GO: There's a lot spoken about the "will to let go", books describe the cathartic properties of "walking away" or "letting go" or "moving on" a...

The Life Doctor: LOVE VERSUS FEAR - A CHOICE

The Life Doctor: LOVE VERSUS FEAR - A CHOICE: We all have a fear of something even if it doesn't anymore 'rattle our cage' like it used to, maturity has a way of softening the blows in ...

The Life Doctor: WHEN FAILURE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND

The Life Doctor: WHEN FAILURE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND: For many people the word failure sends a shudder down their spine, it brings a cold and embarrassing chill to what they have to say. Yet fa...

The Life Doctor: THE COMMENTING GAME - IT EXPOSES THE REAL YOU!!!

The Life Doctor: THE COMMENTING GAME - IT EXPOSES THE REAL YOU!!!: Everything we say has an infliction pertaining to our thoughts and feelings, even if we copy verbatim someone else's own copy it's a decisio...

The Life Doctor: LOST IN THE CROWD

The Life Doctor: LOST IN THE CROWD:  In the very same world there is a dichotomy of individualism, there's the advanced world where you can be what or who you want, the only t...

The Life Doctor: GETTING THROUGH THE TIMES AHEAD

The Life Doctor: GETTING THROUGH THE TIMES AHEAD: There's no doubt about it, many people are seeking, not necessarily actively but never the less seeking some glimmer of hope with regards wh...

The Life Doctor: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL

The Life Doctor: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL: Life is evolutionary regardless of where or how it starts, and whilst patterns and shapes and time have functions and our knowledge can only...

The Life Doctor: FALSE LIMITATIONS

The Life Doctor: FALSE LIMITATIONS: Our journey in life is full of ups and downs and on the whole we cope with them all, some only just and some test our mettle to an extent in...

The Life Doctor: THE MIND GREMLINS 2

The Life Doctor: THE MIND GREMLINS 2: Isn’t it funny how fickle we are as human beings, our great strengths, courage, determination, our phlegm, our verve, our steadfastness, ou...

The Life Doctor: CONCIOUSNESS, PANPROTOPSYCHISM AND YOU

The Life Doctor: CONCIOUSNESS, PANPROTOPSYCHISM AND YOU: We all know about consciousness and we know about unconsciousness, it's not something we need a degree in to understand, we may be a bit fuz...

The Life Doctor: JUST DARE TO BE DIFFERENT

The Life Doctor: JUST DARE TO BE DIFFERENT: Many people today have some sort of gripe, it doesn't matter who you are there's always "that story" about someone or something or whatever ...

The Life Doctor: BEING DIFFERENT

The Life Doctor: BEING DIFFERENT: Let's start from the beginning, we are all different every single one of us on planet earth, even if we appear similar as twins do, we are ...

The Life Doctor: THE TERMINAL MEDIA ILLNESS

The Life Doctor: THE TERMINAL MEDIA ILLNESS: If we believed everything we read in the media including those that post endless updates on Twitter and Facebook and the like we would all e...

The Life Doctor: FEEDING ON FEAR

The Life Doctor: FEEDING ON FEAR: What is the thing that is going to upset you the most, what is it that is going to both destabilise you and make you feel low and possibly i...

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUALITY V SCIENCE

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUALITY V SCIENCE: It's 2012 the real Year of Aquarius, not the coming of Aquarius as sung years ago in the "sunshine days" of hippy environments and the like....

The Life Doctor: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL

The Life Doctor: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL: Life is evolutionary regardless of where or how it starts, and whilst patterns and shapes and time have functions and our knowledge can only...

The Life Doctor: LIFE IN A DIFFERENT SHADE

The Life Doctor: LIFE IN A DIFFERENT SHADE: Life is a variable commodity one moment it's fabulous another we are faced with anxiety, stress, upheavals and an unknown future, where onc...

The Life Doctor: THE TERMINAL MEDIA ILLNESS

The Life Doctor: THE TERMINAL MEDIA ILLNESS: If we believed everything we read in the media including those that post endless updates on Twitter and Facebook and the like we would all e...

The Life Doctor: FEEDING ON FEAR

The Life Doctor: FEEDING ON FEAR: What is the thing that is going to upset you the most, what is it that is going to both destabilise you and make you feel low and possibly i...

The Life Doctor: WHEN THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL GOES OUT

The Life Doctor: WHEN THE LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL GOES OUT: What happens when your future is stymied right in front of you, when hope turns into a nothingness, when the glimmer of something on the ...

The Life Doctor: PERMANENTLY SEEKING EMPATHTY

The Life Doctor: PERMANENTLY SEEKING EMPATHTY: It's a nice feeling to be understood especially if what you are recognised for is part of your personal make up, it's more than being recog...

The Life Doctor: FALSE LIMITATIONS

The Life Doctor: FALSE LIMITATIONS: Our journey in life is full of ups and downs and on the whole we cope with them all, some only just and some test our mettle to an extent in...

The Life Doctor: JUST DARE TO BE DIFFERENT

The Life Doctor: JUST DARE TO BE DIFFERENT: Many people today have some sort of gripe, it doesn't matter who you are there's always "that story" about someone or something or whatever ...

The Life Doctor: WHEN OUR ASPIRATIONS DON'T COME TRUE

The Life Doctor: WHEN OUR ASPIRATIONS DON'T COME TRUE: We start off in life with few dreams other than what's on our mind in the immediate future, we know in reality very little so our minds are...

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS: It appears today that more and more people are calling themselves "spiritual" in the wake of "man made religions", Islam getting out of h...

The Life Doctor: WHO ARE YOU ?

The Life Doctor: WHO ARE YOU ?: If someone put the question to you, "Who Are You?" how would you answer, possibly like many people with that instant response of "ermm", whi...

The Life Doctor: INNER FULFILLMENT

The Life Doctor: INNER FULFILLMENT: It's important that we get some degree of inner fulfilment in life otherwise we suffer a degree of deprivation and loss, we get that endless...

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS: It appears today that more and more people are calling themselves "spiritual" in the wake of "man made religions", Islam getting out of h...

The Life Doctor: FEELING EMOTIONALLY BEREFT

The Life Doctor: FEELING EMOTIONALLY BEREFT: Life is what it is and there's no getting away from the fact that at times it all goes swimmingly well then all of a sudden Whoosh that pro...

FEELING EMOTIONALLY BEREFT

Life is what it is and there's no getting away from the fact that at times it all goes swimmingly well then all of a sudden Whoosh that proverbial spanner gets dropped in the works and all seemingly comes to a grinding halt. Our fun and excitement are suddenly reduced to a low ebb and our vision and fun for what's ahead gets put on hold. No matter how many sighs we make and no matter how many tut tuts or other noises we make it doesn't make the slightest difference as it alters nothing whatsoever. We are amazing people, we do so much that we take for granted that we assume we can do so many things and we have gone through so much that when something daunting hits us we at times wonder why and how are we going to manage. Yet deep down we know are going to get through it even if the task ahead plays on our mind. However, something a little more closer to home tends to hit us and that is that feeling in the pit of our stomach or that nagging feeling that we have in our mind that just won't go away. It's not that we are ill or indeed suffering from anything whatsoever, it's a whole culmination of events that are straggling or dragging on in our lives that we seem not to shrug off but deem that we will get around to but don't. Like the small stone in our shoes it's the size of nothing yet hurts so much.

At the end of a busy day many people feel the need to either "chill out" or meet up with friends, the same result is expected, to overcome the day's hustle and bustle and 'normalise' life so that we can rest and start off a fresh the next day, seeing life new and vibrant and wonderful. It works, but only so much as we let it, for over riding what's lurking beneath is like putting a plaster over an open wound without cleaning it, it just festers and festers until it gets worse. Our mental health is so vitally important because if we let that diminish then everything we do will be lacklustre and if that becomes the norm then we effectively live below par. Once we live below par life takes on a different perspective and mantle, we look at all around us with different eyes, it all means something different and we start to calculate life as opposed to living it. Whereas once we would do things and enjoy company now we have to "think" about it and see if we really want to or just be on our own, this is the "half way" house to loneliness and a selfishness brought on by ourselves. Ironically it's quite often that those who do least feel the most tired and start to cosset themselves and feel precious because they have entered that "downward spiral" that's controlled from within. 

Lethargy, tiredness, lowness of life, vacant thoughts, lack of spontaneity, lack of sparkle, lack of communicational abilities, lack of social conversation, irritability, lack of patience, making gruff noises to yourself when waiting for the elevator - it's taking too long, etc, are all pointers to a mind un-rested, as it's an exclamation to the self, for nothing else will speed up or change what is in motion already. Patience runs thin and we take exception about others making out that by default we are badly done to whereas what we are giving off is allowing others to take the lead because we certainly aren't, wrapped in our own mentality. Everyone has a life, so get out of the notion that "your problems" are of interest to others - they are not. It's not that others won't listen but they have problems too and only you can sort out what you have to sort out and only you think in your mind, no one else.

We have the power to start and stop a whole array of things and events in our lives, and not base it on what others think or do. It's not being selfish or self centred that's different it's us doing what's the best for us. It's here that the very selfish use that adage to do whatever they want based upon selfishness, but for most people they do what is expedient because that resides well within as opposed to having to fight within to effect change. Life is what it is we can't "dip in and dip out" to suite ourselves as that causes instability. Fun exists every day, friendship and love are there every day, happiness resides within every day and if you have to make any excuses as to why you can't be happy YOU are the problem, it rests nowhere else. Getting back to "square one" is essential and one should not have to put up and carry needless burdens, if stuff happens stop all the "Oh not again" or "why me" or "it doesn't happen to others" or "when will it all end" because that gets you nowhere it's allowing stupidity to enter into the affray, and when that happens you become stupid and you're not. Respect yourself, allow all that's good to enter into your life, don't be a bystander, don't makes excuses why life isn't as it should be, circumstances can change in an instant so don't rest on them be assured that whatever happens you are going to be fabulous, so be it - fabulous.

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The Life Doctor: BEING LATE

The Life Doctor: BEING LATE: One of the scourges common to businesses and friendships is that of people being late. It's not only disrespectful it's bad in every way po...

BEING LATE

One of the scourges common to businesses and friendships is that of people being late. It's not only disrespectful it's bad in every way possible as it lets others down and stops the smooth flow of life itself. If a cog in a watch no matter how big or small stops then it all stops. Similarly if others place a responsibility upon you as an individual then you either uphold it or be forever viewed as one who can't / won't uphold their part of the bargain. And before those who are late perpetually start to wriggle with annoyance 'blame culture' doesn't hold water either. Yes, there are at times mitigating circumstances where even the most die hard and studious person who always arrives early arrives late one day, but the circumstances pertaining to their enforced late arrival can be counted on one hand and are usually very exceptional. We all know of people who just can't keep to time, perpetually late or last minute or whatever besets or befalls them they just have a list of ready made excuses as to why they "had to do this" or "cut it so fine" as not to allow any safe margin whatsoever so pro-occupied with themselves and their thoughts that what is around is either secondary or less important.


The crucial matter for lateness is not traffic, accidents, weather, invasions from Mars and Venues, it's not even the alarm clock not going off for those that deem they need to be there get there, those that have to be there for whatever reason place secondary importance again on the delivery of themselves as it's a chore more than responsibility.  If one is late for work phoning from the "cell phone / mobile phone" doesn't make it all right, it may show a degree of courtesy should one be able to advise of late arrival but it doesn't admonish the responsibility factor nor does it do anything else - you are late - full stop. There is always a cause for lateness over and above circumstances en-route that one cannot help, illness, bereavement, children, etc, but if children are an on-going common cause that's not acceptable as the world doesn't revolve around your problems and it needs resolution.


The causes of lateness are usually of a psychological nature even if it's perpetually cutting it all too fine and not allowing for delays en-route. Are you happy with your work, or are you happy with the destination that you have an appointment with, even if it's the dentist or a hospital appointment, or an interview or a court appearance or whatever it may be. As a member of the human race you have a responsibility not only to yourselves but those around you too, and that has nothing to do with self concocted ego, arrogance and the 'what's in it for me' attitude for if any of these latter aspects creep into your thoughts you have a problem looming large. You ARE the problem. If you don't like where you work or dread work or dislike those who are at your work it speaks volumes about you and not your work. Understandably it's not always that easy to change jobs especially at certain times where the financial climate is weak and jobs are scarce, but if you respect your income no matter what it is then you should uphold who you are otherwise by default you make yourself worthless and that has very bad connotations that will eventually ostracise you by your own volition from many aspects of life.


 Blame culture, lax attitudes, lack of self respect, negative emotions at the forefront of your mind, small mindedness, pre-occupation with yourself, lack of respect for others, lack of purpose, insularity of mind, lack of focus, lack of priorities, etc are all contributory factors as to lateness especially those who are perpetually late. Lazy environments, i.e.people you work or live within who share the same social banal culture and talk about lateness as a topic, which exists and share their lame excuses and think it's clever. Late arrival usually starts with an apology, think about it, starting anything with an apology isn't good it puts you under par before anything has started and it usually lowers concentration often resulting in a lower performance and hurried thoughts which causes mistakes and lack of concentration. In some areas the smallest of mistakes can cause death or mayhem, just because perhaps your position in life isn't so critical it gives you no leeway to take matters into your own hand. You are paid for what you do not what you don't do.

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The Life Doctor: SHADOWS OF LIFE

The Life Doctor: SHADOWS OF LIFE: In everyone's life there is a silent programme running in the background. It's usually hidden within our "Life Files" and very personal to ...

SHADOWS OF LIFE

In everyone's life there is a silent programme running in the background. It's usually hidden within our "Life Files" and very personal to us, it contains all of our secret ideals, feelings, attitudes, desires, fears, phobias, failures, thoughts on others and often these files contain elements of somewhat 'not so savoury' areas of our thinking and 'secret arrogant thoughts'.  It doesn't matter who we are or where we are from we have these hidden files and they are with us 24/7. For some the files are crammed full of data others they contain very little. The bottom line is that how we make our way in life and how our stability pans out emanates from our perception and our responding attitude. Everything has a shadow a light side and a dark side, we have a sentient thought process and see life from our own particular stand point. It's this stand point that can make or break us and give us joy or sadness, it can give us by default happiness or sadness and most of it from not even moving from any particular point.  The "bigger picture" is where we really reside even at a personal level, if we decide to live within a cocoon of narrowness then life will eventually close in on us and we will lose the ability to think beyond our vision and when that happens a dullness will overtake and cause untold distress on many levels.

Within our whole civilisation lies a darkness the antithesis of all that's good and great, it's the result of a designer creativity for a purpose that has an effect of being disharmonious to our own lifestyle or way forward. Not everything is conducive to everyone, the 'one size fits all' scenario doesn't exist. Where some feel comfortable others stand almost shivering with apprehension such is the way we feel and interact with our comfort zone. Never the less we all have a purpose and we all have an opportunity to be what we want to be. The difference is that some regard their desire to  be appreciated by the many and that's the hard part. Some achieve greatness without seemingly too much trouble although from there on life is usually a quest of relationships and scenarios for which they need to conquer and achieve for themselves as they loose all moral stability. Their lives are usually too full of endless bouts of ups and down, but it can be a life that's privileged so one must take the rough with the smooth.

For the majority of people the shadow areas of life can be controlled because reality is a very stabilising force upon life and what we do. It puts most people back into a stage that they have to think quickly and thus they summarise all around them and where they are at and come to a conclusion that puts them into a position that they feel best comfortable with. It's when negative emotions creep into our lives for whatever reason that we veer from the "straight and narrow" (which varies from person to person) and we start then to collate extraneous thoughts about "why", "it's not fair", "I want", and all the rest and the mind then starts 'calculating' and that can be for the some their biggest downfall because their ideas go ahead of the reality of it all. We often see on talent programmes on television contestants talking about aspirations and before we even see them perform we have feelings that this is possibly the one and only time they will ever be on television.

Everything we do has a downside as well as a positive side, it's the application and deed of what's best that makes the positivity of it all come to life and overshadows the negative aspects no matter how minimal they may have been. At times we have to make far reaching decisions that encompass many aspects some of which no matter what we do will disadvantage others and there are no options that will preclude that. Whatever we do we must conduct it from a good heart that way we will minimise the negativity that will ensue thereafter even if some don't receive a benefit. Provided we make the best decision(s) we cannot take the negativity from others, they have to steer their course and you are not responsible for their thoughts. We all have to drive our own vehicle in life no matter what and can't apportion what others have done as that is out of our control. The key to success is to forge ahead, dwelling on the problem and get angry overtakes the solution and then nothing happens which is what happens to many. Some even believe that when their life is a mess it's because of others whereas in reality it's them not taking control. Life at times is not easy, but there again the success of striving to do your best is well worth waiting for as the reward is rich.

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The Life Doctor: DRONE ADDICTION

The Life Doctor: DRONE ADDICTION: We all conform to something in life even if it's via a stance of routine, we do that because it helps us get to where we want to go to qui...

DRONE ADDICTION

We all conform to something in life even if it's via a stance of routine, we do that because it helps us get to where we want to go to quickly and with the knowledge that all we need in between is there to help us speedily do whatever we have to do. Control is a contradictory word in that it can be both oppressive and at the same time protective in the nicest possible way. Some people need control in order to flourish in their own environment as others need freedom to utilise their gifts of creativity for without which nothing would ever move forward or be crated or developed. It's a cosy synergy and a positive symbiosis on paper at least. Of course the moment humans start to interact we get differing characters, ideologies, and negative emotions come into play and of course evil religions and that's when it all goes belly up.

The human species is love based, if we take love away from the human being we get a drone or a robot, just living to live without purpose, definition and feeling. Where emotions are superfluous to life and other than survive the warmth and colour that surrounds us and the technology that's available wouldn't be as it is now for there would be no purpose for it. Governments should protect their citizens not run their lives, this too is a very contentious area as Islamic countries do both under the auspices of religion, but religion is between you and God and not anyone else, hence they are all backward, unstable and disruptive in context. Whilst most people crave freedom and have it available there are those who need to be told what to do or at least be placed within a structure that defines a routine or protocol as that complements their lives and also enhances their ability and personal security. Similarly not everyone can be entrepreneurial however the cross over between creativity and  business is very variable and should not be judged as such. Life exists in a variety of guises there isn't a one size fits all and therefore it should not be imposed on everyone as a blanket coverage.

It's amazing how many people could benefit from an injection of 'open source' even those who feel that they are creative and open where they are right now often comply subliminally with protocols devised by others that for some reason feel they have adhered to and do so without much thought. The more 'baggage' we carry the more it slows us down, like a computer that's never had all the redundant files removed, it just gets slower and slower and slower. Lightness of life is essential and trying to 'fit in' with others isn't always the smartest thing to do either as that shows a lack of self and one's own personality being muffled under a cloud for the sake of others. It's not easy for some to transcend the mundane but it does pay dividends if it is transacted. And for those that think it's good to be 'one of the gang' or whatever it is, it shows a decisive lack of ability for others, by default you are allowing to hold yourself back. Similarly you need to show life and all that's in it that you have a mind of your own and that you can think for yourself which doesn't mean that you have to be arrogant or bombastic. There will always be those who try to pull you down but that shows more about them and their inability than anything else.  

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The Life Doctor: SATIRE

The Life Doctor: SATIRE: Satire is as old as the hills, in Western culture it's accepted as a form of expression by anyone who has a point to make about anything or ...

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: FAILURE

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The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: NEW TYPE DEPRESSION (NTD)

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The Life Doctor: GETTING THROUGH THE TIMES AHEAD

The Life Doctor: GETTING THROUGH THE TIMES AHEAD: There's no doubt about it, many people are seeking, not necessarily actively but never the less seeking some glimmer of hope with regards wh...

The Life Doctor: EXISTENTIALISM AND HIGHER ENERGY

The Life Doctor: EXISTENTIALISM AND HIGHER ENERGY: In our evolution there seems at times to be an overwhelming increase in the hamartia factor, whether it is something that has come to light...

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: FAILURE

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: FAILURE: The Life Doctor: FAILURE : The word failure can for many send a shiver down the spine as if it's something like Armageddon approaching, yet ...

The Life Doctor: FAILURE

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The Life Doctor: INNER FULFILLMENT

The Life Doctor: INNER FULFILLMENT: It's important that we get some degree of inner fulfilment in life otherwise we suffer a degree of deprivation and loss, we get that endless...

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE: The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE : There's a big difference between being alone and feeling lonely, the former is just that - you are alone...

The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE

The Life Doctor: YOU AREN'T ALONE: There's a big difference between being alone and feeling lonely, the former is just that - you are alone, with few or no one around you, th...

The Life Doctor: THE NOW ASPECT OF TOMORROWS TECHNOLOGY

The Life Doctor: THE NOW ASPECT OF TOMORROWS TECHNOLOGY: We seem to get bombarded almost daily by new technology designed to make life easier, faster, more secure, more time saving, and more anythi...

The Life Doctor: KINDNESS

The Life Doctor: KINDNESS: We all appreciate degrees of kindness, we all like to think that we are kind, but the cold truth is that many who would consider themselves ...

The Life Doctor: THE ACT OF OBSERVATION AND UNDERSTANDING

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The Life Doctor: AFFECTION

The Life Doctor: AFFECTION: It's just so good to receive affection, it feels just great to be greeted and spoken to by people who care and respect us for who we are. It...

The Life Doctor: ETERNAL HOPE

The Life Doctor: ETERNAL HOPE: Hope for most people is more than an essential aspect of life, it's something that's intrinsic towards who they are and what they want to ge...

The Life Doctor: THE RITUAL OF LIFE

The Life Doctor: THE RITUAL OF LIFE: Asking people as to whether they are happy or not always brings a slow response followed by a somewhat brief yet quick analysis based upon h...

The Life Doctor: GETTING YOUR ACT TOGETHER

The Life Doctor: GETTING YOUR ACT TOGETHER: We all at times have deep aspirations and ideas that we would like to carry out, we also have "duties" too that we more or less must carry o...

The Life Doctor: LIFE'S EDUCATED PARROTS

The Life Doctor: LIFE'S EDUCATED PARROTS: Education and knowledge are one thing, putting it all together in a coherent way is another. We can obtain knowledge in the form of a book o...

The Life Doctor: TAKING OWNERSHIP

The Life Doctor: TAKING OWNERSHIP: Many people in life are experiencing problems with just living throughout each day, they seemingly come up against bad service, problems wit...

The Life Doctor: THE END OF THE RIDE

The Life Doctor: THE END OF THE RIDE: How many people are ever prepared for the inevitable or whatever crosses their pathway without prior warning? We are all different and cope ...

The Life Doctor: WHO ARE YOU ?

The Life Doctor: WHO ARE YOU ?: If someone put the question to you, "Who Are You?" how would you answer, possibly like many people with that instant response of "ermm", whi...

The Life Doctor: FINDING THE JOY

The Life Doctor: FINDING THE JOY: Happiness is one thing in life, love is another, both together are essential for if we lose either for any length of time we start to become...

The Life Doctor: MORE ON LONELINESS

The Life Doctor: MORE ON LONELINESS: Loneliness is a creeping condition in that for many they just find that they feel all of a sudden isolated, lonely and at times very fragile...

The Life Doctor: THE ART OF UNDERSTANDING

The Life Doctor: THE ART OF UNDERSTANDING: There is an art to understanding, it doesn't matter who you are, what you are, your level of intelligence, whatever, we all like to be liste...

The Life Doctor: MENTAL HEALTH, STABILITY & HAPPINESS

The Life Doctor: MENTAL HEALTH, STABILITY & HAPPINESS: It's almost at epidemic proportions and much of it is self afflicted, it's a structured aspect of humanity that if lost will cause mayhem be...

The Life Doctor: IDIOTS EMPLOYING IDIOTS

The Life Doctor: IDIOTS EMPLOYING IDIOTS: The amount of creative intelligence that's allowed to be wasted, discarded, overlooked because the "gatekeepers" or those in such positions ...

The Life Doctor: DISENGAGING FROM LIFE

The Life Doctor: DISENGAGING FROM LIFE: Our minds can be very complex if we allow them free reign, we should at all times be in control of who we are and not allow our mind to take...

The Life Doctor: EXISTENTIALISM AND HIGHER ENERGY

The Life Doctor: EXISTENTIALISM AND HIGHER ENERGY: In our evolution there seems at times to be an overwhelming increase in the hamartia factor, whether it is something that has come to light...

EXISTENTIALISM AND HIGHER ENERGY

In our evolution there seems at times to be an overwhelming increase in the hamartia factor, whether it is something that has come to light or there is a genuine separation of people remains to be seen. But there is a distinct breaking away from the self towards a reliance on technology and others to solve our daily problems. Almost hand in hand with the hamartia factor is that of hebetude, a yearning of the self that awaits wondrous things to happen but having little if no input towards the effect of change. Those that have a thetic impulse when viewing life are those who can often see the "bigger picture" from a thetic perspective and thus are enlightened and have the ability to enlighten certain others who are also receptive to same. Where our society is breaking into groups of those that 'see' and those that don't 'see' is how it will progress and based upon current events such as in Islamic countries where they are in a retrograde state, relying almost parasitically on the West for technology, engineering, communications and medicine, none of which they produce of any value themselves.

The overall belief structure in this world is also going through a metamorphoses in that many are opting out of traditional belief structures because they don't suffice and produce a need in today's environment. It's not in some cases surprising as the quality of preachers in all dominions is extremely low and most lack any character or charismatic ability to excite and instill that they even believe themselves. Ironically it's non-believers that are becoming most vociferous about not believing, almost akin to the religious fanatics that purport to believe whilst they shout their own messages, and are far from conduits to God as evil is their common theme and not love, very bazaar. Almost every week scientists have to eat their words as new discoveries thwart their idealism based upon what they know, their extrapolations are so fuzzy and ill conceived that new discoveries show just how much they don't know and the temperamental nature of various states in different conditions.

Within all of this, this cacophony of multi-level playing fields of science, the arts, religion, and the rest we as a sentient humanoid species are developing an understanding of the bigger picture from a far different perspective.  A more advanced form of knowledge that's coming together yet doesn't go down the New Age route or even touch on 'weirdness'. It's a homogenised thought structure that elevates thought in a relatively pure form that many around the world concur upon without having previously known one another, nor previously read about what they almost simultaneously have seen or understood. The mind does wondrous things, tapping into the earth's energy fields on a higher level can allow amazing insights to take place - obviously way out of scientists way as their clinical and analytical minds would be the death knell straight away. The fine line of mind thought needs no time lag for "thinking" just receiving and understanding and here lies a whole new ball game in the way we look and think on a higher level. Those that seek to make comparisons, or devise linkages between what's received will lose out before they start as any kind of mind intellectualising will eliminate the fine threads that like neutrons are dashing around at great speed but are never the less real in their own right.

A "lightness" of mind is essential to interface with "high thinking" and thus that eliminates just about all those who have degrees of hatred, evil, anger and so on, in fact it's almost back to the very start of it all "love" in its purest form. The "love" quotient is what keeps mankind together and has separated those countries that have with those that haven't and why some have a built in "failure" yet fail to accept this via their indoctrinated and often religiously controlled thinking. The future of  mind-technology i.e. the material linking with human though is yet in its infancy despite what has been achieved, but it is as yet untouched and 'the mind' often has to be passively interfaced as opposed to actively interfaced to make it become active. Mind communication is a step to unravelling and bringing home questions that at the moment are just light thoughts. The vastness and inter-stellar complexities that abound of which we know absolutely nothing about including parallel interfaces that as yet, we cannot connect to which are all around us and offers a whole new reality that exists that we are a part of it in the "bigger picture".  But even closer to home, the calm and collected, the more stable we become and the more receptive to the nuances of life and those around us making it far easier to "steer our ship" and miss the pitfalls of life and those around us that subliminally know no better no matter how nice and well meaning they are.

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The Life Doctor: TELLING THOSE AROUND YOU HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU...

The Life Doctor: TELLING THOSE AROUND YOU HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU...: We can all be wise after the event, many are experts in hindsight and still get it wrong, we can however at times be full of regret and remo...

The Life Doctor: EVERY END HAS A NEW BEGINING

The Life Doctor: EVERY END HAS A NEW BEGINING: Everything in life has a life of its own, it has a duration that somewhere it is stamped with a 'best before' or 'expiry date', expiry dates...

The Life Doctor: YOUR LIFE - YOUR CHOICE - YOUR FUTURE

The Life Doctor: YOUR LIFE - YOUR CHOICE - YOUR FUTURE: With upheavals in the Middle East and millions of Arabs seeking freedom, whatever that is for them, so used to being governed and working an...

The Life Doctor: BE PREPARED TO BE WRONG

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The Life Doctor: EASING THE PAIN OF REALITY

The Life Doctor: EASING THE PAIN OF REALITY: It's difficult at times to come to terms with aspects of life, what we are personally going through has nothing to do with what others are e...

The Life Doctor: THE "WALLPAPER" EFFECT

The Life Doctor: THE "WALLPAPER" EFFECT: We are a product of who we are, regardless of our environment, our circumstances our upbringing and anything else how we interact with all t...

The Life Doctor: ASKING THE QUESTIONS

The Life Doctor: ASKING THE QUESTIONS: Intelligence is not a precursor to success, neither is ignorance, you can be a world class brain box and have no common sense whatsoever or ...

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S SPIRITUALITY ALL ABOUT?

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S SPIRITUALITY ALL ABOUT?: It's strange what people say about "spirituality" they have their own potted views and thoughts on it yet very few indeed know what it's al...

The Life Doctor: WHO IS PEDDLING WHAT?

The Life Doctor: WHO IS PEDDLING WHAT?: There's no doubt about it that the age of the blog has arrived and it's so easy via YouTube to get your voice posted to possibly billions of...

The Life Doctor: CATCHING THE JOY OF LIFE

The Life Doctor: CATCHING THE JOY OF LIFE: Within our lives we have a multitude of circumstances and events that help shape who we are and how we think. There is a reality situation w...

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS

The Life Doctor: SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS: It appears today that more and more people are calling themselves "spiritual" in the wake of "man made religions", Islam getting out of h...

SPIRITUAL OSMOSIS

It appears today that more and more people are calling themselves "spiritual" in the wake of "man made religions", Islam getting out of hand and so very unstable, and others not delivering the goods. We don't see any benefits from any of the Gods that these people worship in any way because the basic credential for any believer is for them to believe and they don't. They base their belief on rhetoric and parrot fashion learning and of course fear, rules and regulations that hold back as opposed to encourage. So many people of these religions are full of anger and hatred, the conduit to God is through love and love alone, and evil masking love is like a wolf in sheep's clothing, it produces unrest and more devastation and evil. It is not good enough to "praise God" when things go well and when say "it must be a lesson" when it doesn't, because that's not true and it's make believe, brought about by failure and deceitful preachers who have no more contact with God than a Camel turd. Everyone who believes has contact, those that don't believe don't, you make your choices based upon whatever you feel "floats your boat" but in the end times if you are wrong you're nothing.


We then get the "New Age mob" those that talk about "nice things" but are all screwed up and look perpetually ill. Often seen hovering around health food stores and meetings of the pathetic and lost seeking more stories and information to enhance their journey into weirdness. Lastly, there are those who call themselves "Spiritual" (whatever they think that means) because they pretend not to believe in God (but they do a bit) preferring to believe in some supreme force or energy and they call that the Universe. They often come out with "if you put goodness into the Universe it will pay you back kindly" - where on earth that came from who knows, but then it says a lot about them too. Usually their attitude is whet and ineffectual, being on the fence no opinion one way or another and it i's a cop out between no I don't believe and "just in case" I do, a foot in both camps.

Spirituality is a state of mind, not just a set thought it is an actual state, very few actually have that state to apply their life by and thus the vast majority are just wandering around with a theoretical concept as opposed to something tangible that produces benefits. It fills 'that' box when it states Belief / Religion? Of course being "Spiritual" one must know the route to take, so many see a whimsy version of "Spirituality" as being good and kind and nice and believing in the "universe, etc, all of which is not incorrect. It is like believing in "Superman" sounds good, represents good, but doesn't exist. It is harmless to have 'spiritual' thoughts but it doesn't provide a purpose of merit, in real times of woe goes nowhere fast. In order to gain a "spiritual" access to life and what else it may hold, there must be something of a sincere nature to want it to happen otherwise one will like religion go through the motions talk endlessly about it and be no better off. A bit like having an  Mp3 player that just holds the information and no more.

Life for some, religion makes a world of difference both the parrot fashion brigade who are stoic and dumb as well as the open and true who can feel the access. The power of the mind is really incredible and when one has a belief of unlimited power then the road is always open to endless possibilities without the "wow factor" interfering. Often what scientists seek to know rarely happens as they interject logic en-route which immediately stymies what they are seeking. It's strange that many atheists / agnostics get upset when talking about religion or God (any one) whereas it shouldn't be an interest, like people talking about sport to those that can't stand it. Whatever your beliefs they are yours and it is no one else's business after all if you don't' believe there is nothing to say and if you do believe it's between you and God no one else. Life is about love, God is about love, evil or the devil is about bad, so here we have a commonality at a common level. Evil and killing can't be an aspect of religion otherwise it becomes devil worship, and after all if your God or it's followers kill what is the devil supposed to do other than be pleased that he has more workers afoot?


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The Life Doctor: THE LAUGHTER MACHINE

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The Life Doctor: SOCIAL DEPRESSION

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL DEPRESSION: Everyone goes through ups and downs in life, it's the way it is, some fair better than others, but that's the way it is also. However at tim...

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: OUR RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE

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The Life Doctor: WHERE IS THE L-O-V-E-?

The Life Doctor: WHERE IS THE L-O-V-E-?: Love is a very emotive word and at the same times it's a very much overrated and abused word. We see Hollywood movies whereby people live an...

The Life Doctor: LIVING IN THE SLIPSTREAM (The SLIPSTREAM EFFECT)

The Life Doctor: LIVING IN THE SLIPSTREAM (The SLIPSTREAM EFFECT): All through life there are those that do and those that don't, some have relative grandeur thrust upon them for doing little, they just have...

The Life Doctor: HYPERDYMENTIONAL & MAGNETOHYDRODYNAMIC FORCES

The Life Doctor: HYPERDYMENTIONAL & MAGNETOHYDRODYNAMIC FORCES: We tend to think in very narrow terms dimensionally which is understandable as we live in a relatively primitive environment even though we...

The Life Doctor: OUR RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE

The Life Doctor: OUR RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE: From the day we are born to the day we die we have an abundance of relationships with life, life being our environment, people, circumstance...

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: STEERING YOUR OWN COURSE

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: STEERING YOUR OWN COURSE: The Life Doctor: STEERING YOUR OWN COURSE : It's amazing when you ask people whose life they are living the retort is 'mine' and it's said w...

The Life Doctor: ISOLATION & ABANDONMENT

The Life Doctor: ISOLATION & ABANDONMENT: We read many stories today about the endeavours of others and what they have gone through and how they are now. We see documentaries and new...

The Life Doctor: SORRY & THANK YOU

The Life Doctor: SORRY & THANK YOU: Two very powerful words that express so much about life, the person we are, our understanding of life and others, the etiquette of getting o...

The Life Doctor: BEING BROKEN HEARTED

The Life Doctor: BEING BROKEN HEARTED: It’s not the nicest of things to happen, it blows our mind like a mini atom bomb going off inside of us, triggering all of our feelings and ...

The Life Doctor: STEERING YOUR OWN COURSE

The Life Doctor: STEERING YOUR OWN COURSE: It's amazing when you ask people whose life they are living the retort is 'mine' and it's said with a degree of aplomb. Yes talk to them a ...

STEERING YOUR OWN COURSE

It's amazing when you ask people whose life they are living, their retort is 'mine' and it's said with a degree of aplomb. Yes talk to them a little more and the conversation, regardless of it's content, starts to include others that by default play a role either by design or default that influence what they do and say. Of course we don't live in isolation and yes we do have significant others that we gladly take on board and meld our ways with to incorporate them as they do with us, it's called 'getting on with others''. Our focus on life at times goes astray in that we feel the need to both steer our own course and at the same time please others as that can give us a sense of achievement and acknowledgement, part of the 'feel good factor'. But the reality of all this is false because others then take you for what you give out whether it's done consciously or not, and if not careful it can get out of hand very quickly. It is at moments like this that when it gets out of hand we feel that we are taken advantage of or it all doesn't feel right or others get a wrong impression of how we are and we don't like that, even though it is us that has instigated it all ourselves.

Sometimes it is the little things in life that get to us, rather than the larger things that we tend to cope with and get to the bottom of without too much trouble. A self conscious attitude usually stops us making an issue out of the small things in life. If others do make an issue we even feel they are being picky or small minded and judge them differently. At times life is what it is, we have to make a compromise and do what we have to do even if it's not basically ideal, even within what we would like. Needs must and doing something is always better than doing nothing.  Life is full of conduits so we can make a leap forward to an amazing array of places just by meeting people in certain areas and be receptive to whatever it is they have to offer. We should be open to possibilities from the most unlikely sources and never pre-judge based upon outward views.

There are in life plenty of people who on the side lines will give you advice as to what to do and where to go. Whether it' is well meant or not it all comes from their perspective which is not yours.  One thing you must never do is ask or take advice from anyone who has aspirations less than your own, as it will always be below par and full of their own insecurities and fears. By all means listen, but if it doesn't resonate with you, move on. Unfortunately there are even those who may not even wish you to succeed as it would to their mind put themselves in a bad light. Even professional advisers can get it wrong, again everything comes from their perspective and that could ultimately produce something that one dreads doing and provides no upliftment and ultimately disappointment. There are no magic wands in life even though at times some have those proverbial 'lucky breaks. Either way you have to walk the walk and talk the talk.
  
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The Life Doctor: DANCING WITH GHOSTS

The Life Doctor: DANCING WITH GHOSTS: Does your past ever come back to haunt you? You ever have bouts of regret, remorse, guilt, apprehension of the past, etc? Does life at time...

The Life Doctor: THE LOVE SWINGOMETER

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The Life Doctor: DANCING WITH GHOSTS

The Life Doctor: DANCING WITH GHOSTS: Does your past ever come back to haunt you? You ever have bouts of regret, remorse, guilt, apprehension of the past, etc? Does life at time...

DANCING WITH GHOSTS

Does your past ever come back to haunt you? You ever have bouts of regret, remorse, guilt, apprehension of the past, etc? Does life at times seem like a course in aspects of deja vu or that you have feelings that it's recurring again like it's all the same but different? Do people remind you of the past or regurgitate stories of a not so nice nature that makes you feel somewhat low in spirits? Well fret not because it happens to many people every day at some juncture in their lives. Of course we can deliberately and almost consciously make decisions that repeat the past such as the "battered wife syndrome" and other areas where reality, stability and habit all roll themselves into one to try and fulfil an inner desire. It works but the result is always failure. One thing that people don't seem to bring to their guise of where they reside is the here and now and that the past is just that. No manner of conversation or saying sorry or crying or "making good" or appeasement or atonement or resolution or whatever is dreamt up today can alter, change or undo the past. What has happened has happened.

Guilt and memories of the past are manifested within the mind, nowhere else can they live, no one else can harbour your thoughts or feelings and no one else can ever change the thought process except yourself. Guilt is none productive and serves nothing more than a selfish whim of your own or worse still of others who wish to keep the past thoughts alive for their evilness of mind, it can't be said otherwise. Past loves, bereavement, financial greatness now no more, whatever it was has left its trail on life and is now confined to the echelons of history. We live in the present and our destiny lies in tomorrow which has nothing to do with the past even if decisions made yesterday affect what we do tomorrow, we can never live yesterdays decisions good or bad again. Trying to bring "closure" to the past is silly, because closure has already been effected, it's gone, so the only thing that people seek is something of a personal nature to try and bring form to it because they often can't bring together an understanding that "that's it" but it is, it's that simple. All this "we can rest now", "we can put it behind us", "we can do whatever" is unfortunately a selfish mind set often thrown up by the press or legally driven to try and add kudos but again the reality is you can't add kudos to the ghosts of time.

The problem with many people is that they are trying to find something tangible in life to give themselves meaning, importance, substance and an ability to proceed forwards with impunity and solidity, many fail. Grasping at intangible morsels of life as if that will help but sadly when they have tasted what they desire they find it is still not filling those voids within. When their desire to be emotionally quenched does not hit the mark they then set out on any other quest to see if that will effect a solution, sadly that doesn't help either. To feel really wholesome one must understand what life is all about and the past isn't something you can dance with in the present, memories are just that no matter how dear they are. If you for once delve into areas outside of substance then your whole ability will flounder and not only will life fragment it will be a job in itself to try and feel and see happiness other than for fleeting moments. Life is here, now, that is where you have to live, anywhere else and you are fooling yourself.

Ghosts don't have substance as we know it, they are the remnants of life past. If we choose to associate with anything that isn't here or to come then we are in for a rude awakening. Good mental health is our strongest essential asset if that goes we go with it. Love is the present foundation of humanity it's where everyone lives and moves and it's where we can interact. Our happiness is present time, our love is present time our life is present time and our future is partly present time. Making things up in our mind isn't smart, we need to see potential and not contrive responsibility of atonement because if it is atoned we are still left bereft of substance. For the deceased it's all too late and it means absolutely nothing. Doing things on behalf of the deceased and still say "I did it on their behalf" is a lie and not true and it smacks of selfishness all the way through. If you can't see life for what it is never expect to be happy.

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