Friday 31 August 2012

The Life Doctor: OUR BUBBLE WRAP WORLD

The Life Doctor: OUR BUBBLE WRAP WORLD: We all like to pop the little bubbles on the bubble wrap we get with our gifts or appliances, it serves a valuable purpose and protects what...

Thursday 30 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHEN OUR ASPIRATIONS DON'T COME TRUE

The Life Doctor: WHEN OUR ASPIRATIONS DON'T COME TRUE: We start off in life with few dreams other than what's on our mind in the immediate future, we know in reality very little so our minds are...

WHEN OUR ASPIRATIONS DON'T COME TRUE

We start off in life with few dreams other than what's on our mind in the immediate future, we know in reality very little so our minds aren't cluttered up with endless possibilities, options or the material values of life. We know what love is but we rarely know what it is called, we don't know what respect is to a large extent and similarly don't understand what disrespect is, but we know what we want or think we what and definitely don't want. In short we are immature, everything we think is a very limited knowledge of life and what our parents have taught us or we have picked up on, so that can explain a lot as to how we think and act. As we get older our minds develop and our aptitudes also likewise form a complex understanding of our abilities, thoughts, intelligence, common sense and ideas as to how we personally would like life to unfold. We often have at least a two pronged version of life ahead, an ideal version and a version that incorporates reality to a very basic degree, however for some the dividing line is very narrow.

Life is a learning curve and sometimes that curve is vertical such is the lesson or lessons that we are confronting and trying our best to sort out. In fact at times so much is happening all at once that we often take a back seat and wonder what it's all about and that will things ever be the same or even just get better. But they do, we struggle or muddle onwards, we come through it all. Some seemingly come through the dark areas quicker than others, but there is usually a reason for this and there is usually something within the self that helps us along or hinders our pathway, attitude being one of the biggest pluses or minuses in our mental conditioning. Dwelling on the problem stop us seeing the solution, telling all and sundry about the state of our life can in effect give it gravitas in as much as it makes it into an even bigger episode and thus we now have to deal with a 'monster' we have created in our mind and try to give updates to those unfortunate ones that are silly enough to listen.

Disappointment shouldn't be an entity in our lives, it shouldn't be a weight that bears down upon us and stifles our creativity or zest to go forward. It shouldn't end up as a regret, nor should it be viewed as any kind of failure, in fact the reality is that all the really great people who have made a difference have failed endless times in their quest to reach whatever it is they were trying to attain. Very few indeed had help either, they were scorned by not only onlookers who were either sceptical or jealous but their own negative families who were in themselves dull, boring and uneventful in their own outlook. Many a person has set out in life to do one thing only to end up doing something completely different and a million miles away from their original thoughts.

As we travel life's high road we are exposed to many people, events and situations that offer opportunities that are way beyond our thoughts and feelings, these often stimulate areas within that laid dormant for many years and possible never ever been evaluated so we have never acted upon same. It doesn't matter what time of life we start something, it's immaterial we need to follow our pathway and not the bystanders pathways who are always full of negativity. We must never ever ask advice from anyone who has an aspiration less than our own, no matter who they are, their answers will be full of their own fears and insecurities. There is but one way in life and that is forward, regrets amount to nothing, wrong pathways account for experience and inner personal desire is ours and ours alone. We must always surround ourselves with positive people as they will want you to succeed even if they are not quite sure what it is you are doing, their sole energy however is love based, and that is enough for success. We must keep an open mind at all times even if we have a defined goal because if we are too rigid then opportunities that become available will float by to those who are more receptive and that enhance areas that we have never even thought about. It's good to be strong and persevere but at the same time expedient to be open to what we don't know which amounts to far more than we do know and there lies the success quotient.

When our original aspirations come to nought or don't materialise in the way we would have liked then it's time to review everything about us and around us. It's not to say downscaling or moving on or changing tack. Life is to be enjoyed come what may and the journey has to be enjoyed too, for if we put off enjoyment until our goal has been reached then it's all far too late and the moments en-route have been lost and if they are lost life is lost or at worst wasted. Not everything will become what we want it to be and we can't compare either, that doesn't hold water, neither does the thought of "it's not fair", etc. We are the masters of our ourselves whatever transpires, and thus we need to be at one with life as it has to be lived, enjoyed, laughed at at, kicked into shape. put into place and when we end up at the finish line all exhausted we can say "what a journey" with peace of mind and a restful heart. Many become successful (and that's subjective)  only to have had no life en-route and they tend to forget the bad times enjoying only what's left. Make sure that whatever happens you enjoy every moment you can as it can't ever be repeated.

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The Life Doctor: FINDING PEACE

The Life Doctor: FINDING PEACE: There are books written on the subject, there are courses run on the subject, there are Guru's who proclaim to know the secret or answer yet...

Wednesday 29 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S RELIGION ALL ABOUT

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S RELIGION ALL ABOUT: Religion can be the bane of your life, it can foster ideas and ideologies not of your own making and definitely not of your own choosing too...

Tuesday 28 August 2012

The Life Doctor: LONELINESS

The Life Doctor: LONELINESS: Loneliness is becoming almost an epidemic in our Western society, the amount of people who are craving the company of others is ever increas...

The Life Doctor: SELF ESTEEM

The Life Doctor: SELF ESTEEM: It's important that we keep our self esteem in tip top condition regardless of events or others around us and we don't cower down to ideas t...

The Life Doctor: FAILURE

The Life Doctor: FAILURE: The word failure can for many send a shiver down the spine as if it's something like Armageddon approaching, yet failure has been given a ra...

Monday 27 August 2012

The Life Doctor: BEING AT ONE WITH LIFE

The Life Doctor: BEING AT ONE WITH LIFE: So many people today are seeking that "key" or "Spiritual guidance" or "that something" to try and appease their inner thoughts as to what l...

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S LOVE ALL ABOUT

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S LOVE ALL ABOUT: Love is the corner stone of our society and indeed life, for without love we have nothing to live for. Without love life is but a drudgery s...

Sunday 26 August 2012

The Life Doctor: BEREAVEMENT

The Life Doctor: BEREAVEMENT: Whether we believe in God or not we are all going to die one day. If we believe in God then we will have our views which will have been well...

The Life Doctor: ATTITUDE

The Life Doctor: ATTITUDE: Our attitude is everything, it represent who we are, how we think, what we feel, our opinions, our negative traits, our positivity, it is i...

Saturday 25 August 2012

The Life Doctor: MENTAL HEALTH

The Life Doctor: MENTAL HEALTH: It's imperative that our minds are as proficient as they can be, that we know who we are, where we are and that life holds immense possibili...

The Life Doctor: WHEN IT ALL GOES SO VERY WRONG

The Life Doctor: WHEN IT ALL GOES SO VERY WRONG: Life's funny really when you think about it, we are on planet Earth for a stretch of time, we don't know for how long nor do we know the qua...

The Life Doctor: HAPPINESS EVERYDAY

The Life Doctor: HAPPINESS EVERYDAY: So you've read the title and you've already thought to yourself impossible, how can you be happy everyday without even giving that thought a...

Friday 24 August 2012

The Life Doctor: HAPPINESS EVERYDAY

The Life Doctor: HAPPINESS EVERYDAY: So you've read the title and you've already thought to yourself impossible, how can you be happy everyday without even giving that thought a...

The Life Doctor: MAKING IT HAPPEN

The Life Doctor: MAKING IT HAPPEN: We all want to see enterprise in our lives even the most dull and boring person of which there are quite a few around wants to have some deg...

Thursday 23 August 2012

The Life Doctor: POSTPONING HAPPINESS - YET AGAIN !!!

The Life Doctor: POSTPONING HAPPINESS - YET AGAIN !!!: It's amazing when one talks about happiness people seem to be almost animated in their gestures as if it's something alien and that they don...

The Life Doctor: THE GOD DECEIVERS

The Life Doctor: THE GOD DECEIVERS: The turmoil of today's world is forever growing, the gap grows between those that believe and those that don't, and even those that believe ...

Wednesday 22 August 2012

The Life Doctor: YOU ARE THE LIFE TAFFIC

The Life Doctor: YOU ARE THE LIFE TAFFIC: Are you one of those people who goes through life as if talking on a mobile phone, the conversational quality of talking on mobile devises i...

The Life Doctor: THE EMOTIONAL ASPECTS OF DISAPPOINTMENT

The Life Doctor: THE EMOTIONAL ASPECTS OF DISAPPOINTMENT: The emotional aspects of disappointment can be almost crippling in that they can alter not only how we feel, which is usually low, but the w...

Tuesday 21 August 2012

The Life Doctor: THE "NOW WHAT" FACTOR

The Life Doctor: THE "NOW WHAT" FACTOR: Many people come across the "Now What" factor in their lives because they are somewhat insular in their thoughts and the way they think. It'...

The Life Doctor: MOOD RELATIVITY

The Life Doctor: MOOD RELATIVITY: Whatever our character, or whatever our attitude is it's all manifested from within. The stories of "life made me like this" or "if you've b...

Monday 20 August 2012

The Life Doctor: ADDED PERSONALITY - THE MAGIC INGREDIENT

The Life Doctor: ADDED PERSONALITY - THE MAGIC INGREDIENT: Whatever we do in life or whatever someone else does in life it has a bit of us or them in it, it has to have otherwise it would have been d...

The Life Doctor: VICTIM OR VICTOR?

The Life Doctor: VICTIM OR VICTOR?: In today’s world we are bombarded by a whole manner of people who seem to take it upon themselves to be the bastions of our society and tell...

Sunday 19 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHEN LIFE STARTS TO HURT

The Life Doctor: WHEN LIFE STARTS TO HURT: At times in life many arrive at what is virtually a Life Impasse in that all of a sudden everything appears to come to a grinding halt, the ...

The Life Doctor: MULTIPLE IDENTITY

The Life Doctor: MULTIPLE IDENTITY: Yes we all have multiple identities and no we are not psychotic or schizophrenic, every day we utilise who we are and our knowledge to appea...

The Life Doctor: THE TIPPING POINT

The Life Doctor: THE TIPPING POINT: We all go through phases of one sort or another, or possibly a fad too, but whatever it is, we go through them, some good some not so good a...

Saturday 18 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHERE DOES LOVE LIVE

The Life Doctor: WHERE DOES LOVE LIVE: Life is a journey, not the “New Age” variety of “well it happens for a reason” or any of that mindless rubbish although some of our actions ...

The Life Doctor: TRANSFORMATION OF THE SELF

The Life Doctor: TRANSFORMATION OF THE SELF: There are so many books written today about Self Help, written by those on therapy (all about life and failure), Transcendental Meditation, ...

Friday 17 August 2012

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: ORDER OF CHAOS (Ordo Ab Chao)

The Life Doctor: The Life Doctor: ORDER OF CHAOS (Ordo Ab Chao): The Life Doctor: ORDER OF CHAOS (Ordo Ab Chao) : From the Chaos Theory we get the “Butterfly Effect”, then we get ‘sensitive dependence’ whe...

The Life Doctor: ORDER OF CHAOS (Ordo Ab Chao)

The Life Doctor: ORDER OF CHAOS (Ordo Ab Chao): From the Chaos Theory we get the “Butterfly Effect”, then we get ‘sensitive dependence’ whereby both describe the changes that take place in...

The Life Doctor: THE POWER OF HOPE

The Life Doctor: THE POWER OF HOPE: Hope is an essential aspect of our lives, it’s not some woolly thought that we have that we win the lottery or it stays fine for the bar-b-q...

Thursday 16 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WRESTLING WITH SELF ESTEEM

The Life Doctor: WRESTLING WITH SELF ESTEEM: As a society today one wonders at times if we have progressed mentally or it's just the physical things around us that have gotten more tech...

The Life Doctor: I'M ALL ALONE

The Life Doctor: I'M ALL ALONE: There’s no big secret that some people are predominantly all alone just about all the time, however we can all be “all alone” at certain tim...

Wednesday 15 August 2012

The Life Doctor: BURNING THE ILLUSION

The Life Doctor: BURNING THE ILLUSION: Much of our life is played out by what we know and how we live with that knowledge, how we enjoy our lives is something down to us and our a...

Tuesday 14 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S NORMAL

The Life Doctor: WHAT'S NORMAL: We all have views about what is normal and what isn’t and by and large we share many views concurrently on the same subject , we have ideas ...

The Life Doctor: EMPATHY STRUCTURES

The Life Doctor: EMPATHY STRUCTURES: In order to get along in life we need to have an empathy with it otherwise we either just play “lip service” to what we are doing or go thro...

The Life Doctor: MORE QUESTIONS THAN ANSWERS

The Life Doctor: MORE QUESTIONS THAN ANSWERS: Do you go around with that slightly vacant expression, not quite squinting but that slightly glazed look as if in deep thought, because if y...

Monday 13 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHY CAN'T I BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME?

The Life Doctor: WHY CAN'T I BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME?: Happiness is almost on a par with one of today's biggest problematical areas of life, Mental Health, getting to grips with oneself and life ...

The Life Doctor: THE WILL TO LIVE

The Life Doctor: THE WILL TO LIVE: It’s not that one has the will not to live but the thought that goes through the mind is literally “The Will To Live” life can at times seem...

The Life Doctor: THE CHANGE WITHIN

The Life Doctor: THE CHANGE WITHIN: Every so often we review our lives either directly or subliminally. Life goes in stages it's usually age related and that starts from our ch...

Friday 10 August 2012

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL WANNABIES

The Life Doctor: SOCIAL WANNABIES: There is almost an epidemic of social websites emerging covering just about every aspect of social activity graded by sex, age, social level...

The Life Doctor: JUDGMENTAL ATTITUDES

The Life Doctor: JUDGMENTAL ATTITUDES: We see today on television and read in the press reports from all over the world on situations that are taking place, we even see close to h...

Thursday 9 August 2012

The Life Doctor: THE CHAMELEON EFFECT

The Life Doctor: THE CHAMELEON EFFECT: Love is something we all want to feel, regardless of where it comes from, it's even better if it comes from someone who is significant in ou...

The Life Doctor: WHO?

The Life Doctor: WHO?: It's strange when we hear friends, family, work colleagues etc reciting script they've heard from someone else or even worse a strap line fr...

The Life Doctor: BOREDOM

The Life Doctor: BOREDOM: Boredom is something we are all prone to from time to time, it's a mental thing, it's where we can't apportion our thoughts and feelings to ...

Wednesday 8 August 2012

The Life Doctor: THE LOVE SWINGOMETER

The Life Doctor: THE LOVE SWINGOMETER: The basis of all my writings is about the foundation of society and that is “love”, for without love we are but drones or robots just living...

The Life Doctor: NO REPLY

The Life Doctor: NO REPLY: It's got to be said, that the more companies invest in front line personnel the more clients seem to get frustrated by the way they are trea...

The Life Doctor: GETTING WHAT YOU DESERVE

The Life Doctor: GETTING WHAT YOU DESERVE: We all think we deserve the best and why not, we put effort into something and we expect there to be some return for that effort and expende...

Tuesday 7 August 2012

The Life Doctor: YOU DON'T NEED PERMISSION

The Life Doctor: YOU DON'T NEED PERMISSION: It's funny how when we grow up we are taught, or at least most of us to be respectful to others and others property, it's something that we ...

The Life Doctor: SOCIOPATHS

The Life Doctor: SOCIOPATHS: Sociopaths make up about 4% of the population, they are people who have no or little emotion as opposed to fanatics who often have an overze...

The Life Doctor: TAKING OWNERSHIP

The Life Doctor: TAKING OWNERSHIP: It's important that we take ownership in what we do and not cower down to the trivialities of others thoughts and feelings, or be a part of ...

Monday 6 August 2012

The Life Doctor: WHEN LIFE HURTS

The Life Doctor: WHEN LIFE HURTS: At times when it's almost too much to bare and the thought of crying starts to enter the mind as a comforting option, even if only for the t...

The Life Doctor: THE DARK PLACES - QUANTUM THOUGHT

The Life Doctor: THE DARK PLACES - QUANTUM THOUGHT: There's a greatness in collective thought, but at the same time it all depends upon what the thought is, lemmings commit suicide collectivel...

The Life Doctor: LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK

The Life Doctor: LIFE IS NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK: Let's get it clear from the start, something that most people know but a few seem to have problems with, "Life does not revolve around you"....

Sunday 5 August 2012

The Life Doctor: FEEDING ON FEAR

The Life Doctor: FEEDING ON FEAR: What is the thing that is going to upset you the most, what is it that is going to both destabilise you and make you feel low and possibly i...

The Life Doctor: THE MIRAGE EFFECT

The Life Doctor: THE MIRAGE EFFECT: Have you ever seen in your dreams a better life, improvements, or had daydreams of possibly better times ahead, if you have then you acco...

The Life Doctor: NEPHESH, ABOMINATION AND DESOLATION

The Life Doctor: NEPHESH, ABOMINATION AND DESOLATION: Life is speeding up, we don't need scientists to tell us that, we see only too well how societies the world over are changing beyond what...

Saturday 4 August 2012

The Life Doctor: DEEP INGRAINED BELIEFS

The Life Doctor: DEEP INGRAINED BELIEFS: Over 85% of our thoughts, feelings, actions, habits stem from our inner self that's almost etched with our stubborn concepts of life, we do...

The Life Doctor: SHOWING YOUR EMOTIONS

The Life Doctor: SHOWING YOUR EMOTIONS: We are by default sentient human beings although I think some will throw that in question, never the less it's a mark of a superior being. ...

Thursday 2 August 2012

The Life Doctor: DEALING WITH THE LIFE YOU'VE GOT

The Life Doctor: DEALING WITH THE LIFE YOU'VE GOT: Many people live two lives, the one that they are living currently and an imaginary one that they hypothesise about, the one that's full of...

The Life Doctor: LONELINESS, SOBRIETY AND INNER PEACE

The Life Doctor: LONELINESS, SOBRIETY AND INNER PEACE: There is almost in epidemic proportions today a degree of loneliness which is sweeping through the lives of many people and it's causing th...

The Life Doctor: BEING IN THE LOOP

The Life Doctor: BEING IN THE LOOP: Everything in life is relative, and what one sees as something spectacular others see it as just what it is as it means little more than th...

Wednesday 1 August 2012

The Life Doctor: NEW TYPE DEPRESSION (NTD)

The Life Doctor: NEW TYPE DEPRESSION (NTD): What many people are experiencing today is rejection in particular the young, it's not that they aren't any good or what they are doing is ...

The Life Doctor: GETTING IT RIGHT

The Life Doctor: GETTING IT RIGHT: There's one thing that really does 'rattle our cage' and that's when stuff goes wrong. It's so gratifying when our plans or circumstances f...

The Life Doctor: WHEN IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE

The Life Doctor: WHEN IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE:   Much of life is based upon perspectives, ideology, circumstances and situations, and that as we all know can differ radically not only fr...

The Life Doctor: THE LOVE EQUATION

The Life Doctor: THE LOVE EQUATION: Whatever we think about love it's an essential aspect of whom we are, as a sentient race we have an overwhelming degree of love built into ...